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Post by teddymaker on Jan 21, 2006 1:13:48 GMT 10
I love my husband dearly, but lately he makes me a nervous wreck when he is around...He was off for the last two days and I had to take an extra anxiety pill because he had me a wreck...Its not really anything he does or says its just his presence...I feel like I'm under a microscope...Anyone else have this problem  |
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Post by Admin on Jan 21, 2006 6:17:55 GMT 10
Jayne,
When my dh first retired it was wonderful. But...the longer he was retired the more we got on each other's nerves. I told him that all of a sudden he became an expert at how to keep house, laundry, etc. It drove me nuts. He followed me around all the time and I couldn't get anything done. This was mostly solved when he got a part time job. I think he just wanted me to entertain him and I certainly didn't have time for that. LOL.
I can understand feeling like your under a microscope. Please pm me if you want to talk more ..
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Post by braided-rug on Jan 21, 2006 9:11:11 GMT 10
At the moment I have 6 people underfoot, it has been like that for a month. In a weeks time it will be the quietest it has been ever I think. DH starts work on Monday week, but I imagine he will go to school quite a bit next week to get things started. Then the kids go to school and little daughter starts preschool, then ds goes to uni.
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Post by braided-rug on Jan 21, 2006 9:12:17 GMT 10
My experience is that if husbands are usually busy and away alot it is hard to adjust back the other way.
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Post by daddys3chicks on Jan 31, 2006 23:03:10 GMT 10
When my DH was out of work for 6 weeks he drove me crazy! I never really thought we had a routine, but it was apparent we did when he was there and disrupted it! HUGS to you!
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